The truth is that you're far more of a softy than people believe you are, despite the fact that it might seem normal to presume that you would be selfish with regard to love.
You may be aggressive and strong-willed, but that doesn't mean you've always been able to defend yourself in relationships.
How often have you had the feeling that you have given too much of your time, energy, and love? I'm sure countless times.
Whoa, who would ever doubt such a thing? This notion that you must begin providing for yourself on your own will hit you like a tonne of bricks.
The guilt you experience after allowing your lover to do something you don't want them to is the one thing that really troubles you.
You strive to be "the bigger person," so you hold it inside and let it go. Being the bigger person has only one flaw: it's an outright lie.
You are NOT the greater person; rather, you are YOU, and you have needs that must be met.